Tuesday, August 27, 2024

Finding Your Tribe and Making Sense to Like-Minded People




 Connect with those you resonate well with

We can't help but keep running across this philosophical statement: "No man is an island." But how often have we stopped to reflect on the kernel of wisdom encapsulated in that statement? 


What makes it true? This saying speaks profoundly to the fact that humans were not created to travel this life alone. 


Humans are designed to be social: to interact with others, to create relationships, and to live in a blossoming community. 


This remarkable power of community is nothing less than life-changing and thus gives us the most essential strength we need, every kind of support one may require, and magnificent belonging, which shall be the driving force behind our betterment and prosperity.


The Importance of Community in Our Lives

Imagine you are all alone, lifting some heavyweight all by yourself, with no support at all. 


Then think of the same task again; this time, visualize around you several sets of strong hands that will help to carry the same load with you. 


What remains is to share the weight of the burden among yourselves, which was before you, and suddenly, that insurmountable task will become one which can be done. 


This is the power of a community. Through community, through people sharing with us the values at our core—being with us to reach our ends and sharing our enthusiasm—we derive much more strength than any one of us can gather alone.


The Bible, to be more precise, Proverbs 27:17 GW, has said these words: "As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.


It is this verse that beautifully presents the robust interdependent consequences of being in a community: just like iron sharpens iron, we grow stronger, wiser, and more resilient members as we engage and relate with others who will challenge our perspective, inspire our aspirations, and help us become better accountable for our actions and choices.


Finding Your Tribe


Finding your people is about more than just surrounding yourself with like-minded individuals. It’s about building relationships that uplift and empower you. 


Start by seeking out those who share your passions, whether it’s through professional networks, social groups, or even online communities. 


Don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone and reach out to others—you might be surprised at how many people are also searching for meaningful connections.

Remember that your community is so much more than just a support network in which to draw what you need in the way of help and support from other members. 


You play an important role in terms of what you, as a member, do to contribute to the community supporting and contributing to the greater good for all. 


Be the friend, mentor, or ally to others that you seek for yourself. Share your support with others graciously, sharing your information and expertise, and celebrate wins and successes of those around you.


 This positivity will come back around and be a constructive and affirming feedback loop for everybody in the community.


Benefits Derived from Belonging

 It provides a reliable support system during times of need, serving as a comforting safety net, as well as a sounding board for our ideas and aspirations. 


Indeed, it will establish a large network of resources, which might open doors to things we wouldn't have had before. 


More importantly, being engaged in a community gives us a deep sense of belongingness, which is important for our emotional well-being. When we take the time to find our people, we discover a place where we are genuinely valued, where our unique contributions matter significantly, and where we have the chance to truly thrive and reach our full potential.

Hebrews 10:24-25 GW admonishes,

 "We must also consider how to encourage each other to show love and to do good things. We should not stop gathering together with other believers, as some of you are doing. Instead, we must continue encouraging each other even more as we see the day of the Lord coming.


This scripture puts great emphasis on the necessity of frequently fellowshipping with one another and a sphere of mutual encouragement amongst the family of God.


It is in such get-togethers, either in person or virtual, that we garner the strength to carry on and march ahead. Indeed, even in the midst of troubles and hurdles when confronted by adversity.


Feel the power of the community that's incredible and transformative. Of all the things that seem to resonate in a fragmented, often lonely world, community is what matters most in this age. 


Finding your others is not just a question of finding friends. It's finding an extraordinary force of strength, inspiration, and value in our lives. 


We not only increase our value but can take on almost any challenge—actually head-on with much greater ease as a team—and therefore set ourselves up for almost certain long-term success.


Therefore, I want to encourage you to take that first step right now.


 Give your best shot to connect with those around you, to reach out to them and to start building a community that is bright and supportive and that can keep pushing you further up on your journey.


 Sometimes it's important to remember that the path always lying in front of you is generally much more manageable when you are not walking alone. 


References Bible Verses: 


Proverbs 27:17, 

GW Hebrews 10:24-25, GW

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